Etiquette

Unique Rules Of Etiquette Around The World

September 4th, 2009

We all know that each culture is different. But how different? That’s the question. In this

article, we will tell you some of the different rules of etiquette found around the world.

Argentines
Argentines are comfortable with touches so they stand very close to you during conversation.

They think that the “thumbs up” sign is vulgar and obscene. And when they want to express

their disbelief in someone else’s idea or if they think it’s stupid, they hit their left

palm with their right fist.

Australians
Yawning in public is in bad taste among Australians and so are the “thumbs up” gesture and

the V-sign which is made by extending the middle and the index finger with palm facing

inward. Australians, however, think that you’re putting airs if you don’t sit on the

passenger’s side in a taxi. They are also not good admirers of subservient and apologetic

people.

Austria
Austrians are title respecters, they are very specific with the usage of last names and

first names as well as their job, academic or profession titles. They appreciate direct eye

contact during conversation. They, however, dislike people who put their hands in their

pockets while speaking.

Brazil
Like Argentines, Brazilians consider touches as important components of communication. They

also stand extremely close to anyone they talk with. They are expressive during conversation

and they don’t mind cutting-in a conversation or being interrupted by someone else.

China
Chinese are not huge fans of touches, so refrain from hugging, slapping or making any body

contacts with traditional Chinese people. Whistling and clicking your fingers are also rude

for them and so is being boisterous, loud and overly dressed.

Canada
Canadians place a high value on personal space so touches and close proximity during

conversation is frowned upon. Depending on your location, a “thumbs up” gesture can mean

okay or obscenity. It is also generally considered rude if you do not sit straight with your

legs close together.

France
French gives considerable value on privacy so it is best to refrain from asking personal

questions. They also do not like telling or hearing jokes, they prefer satirical wit which

to them is more substantial and smart.

Germany
To be impolite in Germany is to ask a tour of a person’s home, to put your hand in your

pocket when you’re shaking hands with somebody, to chew gum in public and to shout or lose

temper in front of someone. Policing is common and is seen as a social obligation and so is

being protective, especially to ladies.

Italy
Italians appreciate eye contact. The lack of this can signal that you are hiding something.

They stand near someone during conversation and appreciate flirtation.

Japan
Touches and prolonged eye contact are considered rude by Japanese. It is also not okay to

show affection, extreme emotions and disinterest during conversation.

Russia
In Russia, expansive body languages are okay, in fact, kisses on the cheeks between people

of the same sex are common. However, do not expect to receive warm greetings during your

first meeting with a Russian.

Korea
Unless you are part of the family, you cannot touch a Korean. Direct eye contact should also

be avoided, this signals disrespect.

United Kingdom
Staring is considered uncivilized by the English people, touches are reserved only for

family members and it is advisable to respect their personal space. They are also not fond

of using superlative adjectives, thus, expression are toned down.

United States
Handshakes are firm among Americans and formalities are often not stiff. Americans also love

using friendly gestures such as asking “How are you?”, “We’ll have to get together”, and

“See you later”. These are just pleasantries but are not really meant exactly as they sound.

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The Don’ts Of Daily Living: Common Etiquette That Must Be Observed Everyday

September 1st, 2009

Etiquette are rules of conduct and behavior that are simple to follow. All you need is a

basic sense of good taste, of consideration for others and of less cave-man like attitudes.

And for the most parts, etiquette are not hard and fast rules that must be maintained all

the time.

They are in fact, just guidelines for everyone to follow which may or may not be observed

depending on how much one values politeness. Below is a list of some of the most common bad

manners that are prescribed by society to avoid on a daily basis:

Nose picking in public – Apart from being considered utterly gross, picking your nose in the

public can also compromise other people, especially so when you absent mindedly wipe “it” on

something that can be touched by them.

Fidgeting – If you can’t help but fidget, it is best to do it when no one is around.

Fidgeting signals restlessness and it is very impolite especially so if you are fidgeting

scandalously in a public occasion.

Butting-in to other people’s conversation – It is common sense to let other people finish

their sentences first before you give your own statements. It is sadly, an etiquette that is

often not followed. Apart from being very rude, cutting in to people’s conversation is also

considered very offensive by other people.

Scratching parts of your body in public – If something feels really itchy, it is polite to

excuse yourself and go to go somewhere private where you can do scratching. Scratching is

never polite as this shows not only ill manners but also poor hygiene.

Farting when someone else can hear (or smell) your gas – Your body waste, regardless if it

is solid, liquid or gas, should be kept to yourself. This is why comfort rooms are invented

and why people don’t find it amusing to watch (or hear) people do very private things, yes

including farting. So be polite and try to keep the smell and the sound of your fat to your

self.

Taking off of shoes – Unless you are living in Japan where it is polite to take shoes off

when entering private residence, it is best to just keep your shoes on, especially if your

feet smell a bit offending.

Ignoring your own bad breath – It is really a huge turn off for people to smell hell rising

from another person’s mouth. So if you have a condition called halitosis, get help

immediately. If you are just someone who rushed through your morning without saying “hello”

to your toothbrush, there are gums, patches and mouthwashes you can use to hide the

uninviting smell of your breath.

Removing your dentures in public – If you are more comfortable with your gums than with your

piece of orthotic device, then remove it when you are alone. It is never entertaining to see

someone who has a mouth wanting of teeth.

Speaking constantly – Allow other people to give their opinions, to speak for themselves.

Apart from being a total bore, it is always irritating to talk to someone who does not let

you talk back. Please do yourself and others a favor, don’t monologue.

Touching others repeatedly during conversation – Don’t invade another person’s psychological

space by touching any part of his or her body. Even when he or she has already given you the

permission to touch his hand or shoulder, for example, it is best to refrain from doing this

continuously unless you are willing to talk to his or her lawye

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Table Etiquette – The Do’s And Don’ts

August 29th, 2009

Many people who are not used to attend formal dining are often lost and confused. Anyhow,

this article will tell you of the right and wrong table etiquette.

The Use of Your Fork and Spoon

It is important to be able to locate the right pairs of spoon and fork to use. There are

several spoons and forks in front of you and each of them has its own specific purposes.

What should you do?

The first thing that you should do is to look for your own seat. It is best to ask the host

where you should sit yourself. It is embarrassing to assume any seating position but later

on to be asked to vacate it.

The utensils are normally arranged in a square-like shape in front of you. The bread plate

is placed on the left. The glasses are on the right.

The number of utensils present shows the number of dishes or courses to be served. Normally,

there is a maximum of three of any kind of utensil included at one time. You should pick up

those utensils which are on the outside first. Follow the same routine for each of the

courses served.

Take the spoon and fork above your plate when eating dessert. Use the fork for the cake and

the spoon for the custard or ice cream.

The Use of the Table Napkin

The napkin should be placed on your lap. Use it to wipe your fingers and to dab your lips.

If you feel the need to leave the table while everyone else is still enjoying the meal, put

your napkin on your vacated chair. Put the soiled napkin on the table only at the end of the

meal. Crumple it gently and place it to the left of your plate.

General Table Manners

Don’t eat anything, even bread, at the table until every guest is seated.

Don’t reach across the table to get anything. The person who sits closest to the bread

basket is the one to pick it up, offer some to the person on his left, takes some for

himself, and then passes the basket to the person on his right.

Don’t put down the bread basket. Simply keep passing it after you have gotten your share.

Put a small amount of butter on your plate and then pass it along in the same manner.

Break off a small bite-sized piece of your bread, put butter in it, and then put it in your

mouth.
Sip your soup silently from the side of your spoon. Don’t blow to cool it. Follow a front to

back movement of the spoon on your bowl. Let your spoon rest in the soup plate or on the

saucer.

Eat only when everyone has been served. At a large table, at least three or more people can

start with their meals as soon as they have been served.

What to Avoid

Never wrap your hands into fists when handling the fork or knife.

Don’t saw or stab your food.

Cut one bite-size at a time and eat. Don’t cut your food into little pieces at one time.

Don’t place any used cutlery back on the clean tablecloth.

Never complain about the food.

Having the good table etiquette is your ticket to being invited once more into a formal

gathering. Once you get to know the do’s and don’ts, you will be more relaxed every time you

join formal dinners.

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Proper Etiquette That Ladies Should Know

August 26th, 2009

Since time immemorial, ladies have been treated by the society as if they are breakable

items. They have always been handled with care. Now that the essence of modernity has been

absorbed by both sexes, are the ladies still expected to act like the once conservative

individuals that they used to be? Anyhow, liberated or conservative, there are still several

proper etiquette guidelines meant to be observed by the ladies.
 
Read on below and learn the right manner to display as you meet people, talk to people, and

interact with people.
 
During an Introduction
 
It has been customary that the man must be introduced to the lady. Therefore, never

introduce yourself to a gentleman. It should be the man who must first introduce himself

before you give him your own name.
 
Wait for the man to offer his hand for a handshake before you take it. In the conservative

countries, it is believed that ladies should never touch the men during the introduction

since they must limit the recognition to a bow, a nod, or a smile.
 
During a Conversation
 
Ladies are often expected to carry on with intellectual conversations. When talking, you

should exude tact, fair education, and a good memory.
 
Only share your opinion if you are originally involved in the conversation. Don’t butt in

when you have just overheard something as you happened to pass by.
 
If there is nothing for you to say, simply lend your ears and listen to the one who is

talking.
 
Show an immense interest on any topic that is being discussed in your group. Do away with

distractions.
 
Keep your voice low and gentle. Talking too loud or too vulgar is considered improper.
 
Be sure to engage everyone present in your group into the conversation. Don’t attempt to

talk about topics which the others are unfamiliar with because it indicates singling them

out.
 
Don’t interrupt when there is someone who is talking. It shows rudeness.
 
Don’t act as if you are always witty. A display of knowledge can often be mishandled and may

cause trouble afterwards.
 
Don’t be boastful. If you want to share something about your investment, be sure to say it

without any hint of bragging.
 
Refrain from talking about boys or your dates when there are single women engaged in your

conversation. Be sensitive to their feelings.
 
Don’t talk about scandalous topics. Some people may not be comfortable hearing them.
 
Thank the person who gives you a compliment. Never fall short of compliments for other

people as well.
 
Look at the person in the eye when he or she talks to you.
 
Don’t exit when the conversation is not yet over. This is a sign of disrespect.
 
During Parties
 
Don’t forget to greet the host before you talk with your friends or eat.
 
Dress appropriately. Be sure to take note of the dress code indicated in the invitation

card. Showing up with all those skimpy clothes when the theme is not that sexy is considered

vulgar.
 
Don’t boast about the amount you have spent for your dress. When complimented, thank the

person and be humble when asked about it.
 
Wear dress with cuts and colors that are suitable for your body structure and skin tone.
 
Don’t wear too much jewelry. Wear only the appropriate pieces that will match your dress.
 
Don’t be a scene-stealer.
 
Women should be particular with the proper etiquette that they should exhibit. Proper manner

during these instances speak of one’s breeding and personality.

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Men’s Dating Etiquette – The Rule Of Thumb In Guarding Your Actions

August 23rd, 2009

Dating is the stage wherein you get to know a woman. You see her as a potential companion or

lover with whom you may become intimate with. As you go through this process, there are a

few men’s dating etiquette guidelines which you need to remember.

Turn it into a fun experience. If you are to ask a woman out on a date, it is your

responsibility to make the night truly worth it. You may talk animatedly, watch a movie that

both of you like, dine in a restaurant, or just drive around town. The secret is that you

must have fun and ensure that your partner also enjoys every minute with you. As a result,

she may grant you with a second date.
 
Make an eye contact. Although most women feel uncomfortable with it, you should let her feel

that you have an eye on her. Let her feel that your attention is only hers.
 
Be complimentary and courteous. Any woman who is to go out on a date is sure to put on all

her effort to look good and beautiful. Hence, don’t forget to compliment her. Never make the

mistake of scrutinizing her at this time.
 
Don’t focus on praising her physical beauty. This can turn off your date and give her the

impression that all you care for is one’s physical attributes.
 
Don’t ditch your date. Never cancel on the very moment itself and never let the woman wait

for you in vain.
 
Never boast. Being extravagant or flashy will do you no good. Refrain from showing off your

wealth because not all women can be taken by the glitters of your gold.
 
Refrain from smoking excessively. This will leave your date under the impression that you

have some other forms of vices.
 
Never be arrogant in expressing your opinion. There are several topics to talk about but be

sure not to touch on the sensitive ones like religion or politics. You may not have the full

control of it and end up giving out arrogant remarks. In the end, your date might think that

you are very negative.
 
Be a good listener and never interrupt. Don’t do all the talking. Let her share some of her

thoughts as well. Butting in when she is explaining is rude.
 
Dress well, be clean, and make sure that you smell good. These are all vital especially when

you want to make a good impression.
 
Watch your mouth. Don’t swear, curse, or use vulgar words. It shows lack of breeding.
 
Never talk about your previous dates. It is considered a sin in dating to talk about the

women you have dated, your ex-girlfriends, or even the women that you have slept with. If

you have a conservative woman for a date, she might just walk out on you.
 
Don’t lie. Men always want to create a wonderful picture of himself before his date.

However, lying may not help. What if you both fall into a more serious relationship? Her

discovering your lies is one factor that may cause your breakup.
 
Men are known to be too tricky and playful when it comes to handling women. If you seriously

want to be a part of your date’s life, put your best foot forward. Observing these men’s

dating etiquette guidelines will work to your own advantage.

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How To Maintain Your Job Etiquette

August 20th, 2009

Have you worked so hard to land in a position in your current company? Have you always

dreamed of working for your current employer? Well, the more reasons that you have to be

careful with your actions, to watch out for your words, and to be conscious of your job

etiquette.
 
There are times when without your knowing, some of your fellow workers get annoyed at you.

It may be due to the way you act, the way you talk, the way you dress, the way you walk, and

due to some other very minute details. There are various types of individuality that exist

in all workplaces. You can never find a perfect and harmonious place in the corporate world.

One basic reason for which is that it is part of human’s nature to be envious of what other

people have. Second, some can really be too observant of other people’s personalities. At

the same time, there is that sense of competition running in every worker’s veins.

Etiquette refers to your manners. Thus, to be able to know which actions are proper and

improper in your workplace, read on below for some tips.
 
Refrain from smoking or chewing tobacco during breaks or while working. You have to pay

attention to the kind of space that you share with other people. Not all employees in your

company are smokers, so to speak. Hence, they are not likely to appreciate the scent of

tobacco on their hair, clothes, or working space. If you wish to smoke, it is best to stay

in the smoking area so that you will not disturb others.
 
Freshen your breath after smoking. If you are assigned to the department that handles client

inquiries, be sure to freshen up your breath after you have consumed any cigarette. People

who talk to you are likely to be turned off as they catch your foul breath.
 
Pay attention to proper hygiene. Always arrive to work with a pleasant body odor and freshly

brushed and flossed teeth. Be sure to change your clothes often and wear those freshly

laundered pieces.
 
Dress appropriately. It is best to learn of the company’s dress code so that you will look

respectable.
 
Don’t touch things which are not your own. Never get or touch food, drinks, and other

people’s belongings without their permission.
 
Don’t butt in when other people are having discussions. It is not your business so back off.

Don’t ever eavesdrop in other’s conversations. Share your idea only when the discussion is

directed at you.
 
Be considerate especially as you use your cellular phone. Turn your phone into silent mode

when you are working. When accepting a personal call, it is best to exit so others will not

be annoyed.

Address each and every person with respect. Respect should not only be given to your boss

and other superiors. You should know how to treat people of all ranks with respect.
Let go of your distractions. Don’t play games, turn on the radio, play loud music, and the

likes while everyone is in work mode.
 
Watch your deadlines. You have been hired because you have a role to play and duties to

fulfill. Therefore, beat your deadlines and fulfill your responsibilities.
 
All these tips will be helpful to you. Incorporate these job etiquette tips and you are sure

to do well in your line of work!

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Here Are Online Dating Etiquette Tips For You

August 17th, 2009

Single, married, interested, and bored individuals – all looking for an activity that keeps

them occupied and interested. All stumbles into the same avenue – online dating site, where

they can spend time chatting and making friends with same or opposite sexes.

Online dating has been the rage for people looking for dates, friends, and even potential

lifetime partners, for years now. This is not surprising as unlike in actual dating, you

don’t see the person; therefore you don’t face the usual challenge of impressing the other.

In the virtual dating world, you can act yourself because they do not see you and you only

chat away with them.

With that being said, does it make the online daters observe no rules when interacting with

someone via the online dating site? Do you have to be nice to your online date now and be

rude the next time?

No. Even though online dating sites have made it easy for everybody to look for a date

without taking the trouble of being physically present, there are guidelines that must be

followed. This is called the dating netiquette. If you want to get more dates, and genuine

ones, you want to maintain that dating netiquette.

So, here are the rules:

1.) Etiquette says that you can’t have your own rule and another one for your online date,

and then you expect everything will be fine between the two of you. Therefore, the proper

thing to do is to make sure the rules are fair to both of you.

2.) Unlock the caps. Just like in email messaging, it is unethical to use all capital

letters when sending chat messages. Though you may not intend it, the reader of ALL CAPS

LOCK message may misinterpret what you really meant. It is not only a sore to the eyes, but

it also a shouting, screaming, and offensive net language.

3.) Though virtual, you have to be always polite even though they don’t see you. Asking rude

questions or replying rudely is unethical. Remember that just like in actual dating, you are

interacting with real persons who are bound to get angry, insulted, and hurt when given the

chance to.

4.) Don’t hide the truths and your real interests. Don’t pretend you like the things that

your date likes to impress them even if you dislike these things. Don’t get rude either.

Inactive replies towards these things will be adequate enough to send the message that you

are not interested.

5.) Actual dating etiquette calls that you sit down with your date until it is finished,

even though you are bored the whole time and just want to call it quits. It calls the same

with online dating etiquette. Leaving the room or your date in the middle of your

conversation is not only impolite but is insulting. If you find that you don’t want to

continue, don’t talk to them the following day. Simply send thank you note for the time

spent with you. Naturally, it is different if you feel you are being harassed or your date

is being abusive. In this case, you can leave right away without asking.

6.) Though there are short abbreviations used for certain words, you have to be careful with

your spelling. Occasional errors can go fine but habitual one is not good. It makes you

appear short on the grey cell area.

7.) Internet dating is talking with dates on light yet interesting topics, not on obscene or

racist ones. If you don’t want to quickly drive away your date, keep conversation one that

your online date finds interesting too.

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General Etiquette For Gentlemen

August 14th, 2009

They say that there are only a handful of gentlemen left in today’s society. How true can

this be? In the past, a gentleman was defined to be someone who did noble things. He

appreciated, respected, protected, and valued the women. He cared for his family and

friends. How about in this time and age? What makes a real gentleman? The new millennium has

undoubtedly opened several portals for the men. With all the good things that they have

begun enjoying, some have somehow forgotten about the importance of good taste and general

etiquette.
 
It doesn’t mean that you should act like a robot just because you must guard your actions

with the proper etiquette. The thing is, you are likely to be welcomed and appreciated by

people when you know of the basic proper manners.
 
Here are some of the general tips to keep your manners on the right track.
 
Be polite at all times. There are times when you encounter people who seem to lack the

proper manners. However, you should never go down to their level. Always be courteous and

polite and show them that you are better than they are. Likewise, answer politely even when

someone seems to be really harsh.

Refrain from cursing. The use of slang and other vulgarities are often the thing of the

younger men.
 
To be vulgar is rude, impolite, and shows lack of breeding. There are appropriate vocabulary

words which you may use to express your own thoughts.
 
Avoid speaking loudly. You are not the only person in the area. Others want to keep their

privacy. Speaking loudly when there is a crowd can stress other people. People might also

think that you just want to get their attention but in all cases, such is a negative action.
 
Get a hold of your temper. If you often lose your temper, it normally indicates that you

have a poor control over your emotions. Such is a big factor. If you are unable to hold your

emotions then, most probably you have a poor ability to control other things. Thus, keep

your cool at all times.
 
Never stare. Staring is rude. Troubles start because some men are fond of staring. You don’t

want to intimidate people so avoid doing this.
 
Never interrupt. Allow other people to finish what they have to say. Interrupting means that

you lack the social graces and you have poor etiquette.
 
Don’t spit. Most men spit even when they are on the streets. Others do it subconsciously.

However, it always defines your breeding.
 
Respect the elders. Respect begets respect. You don’t only respect your parents but anyone

who is older than you.
 
Don’t laugh at other’s mistakes. It is not only cruel to do so but you primarily don’t want

others to make fun of you when you’re mistaken, right?
 
Take off your hat. Although hats or caps are now used as a part of fashionable apparels, you

still have to remove it whenever you are indoors. Take it off when you’re in the church, in

school, or when dining.
 
Wait for the others before starting with the meal. Before you start with your meal, you must

ensure that all the other guests are seated and are ready to eat.
 
These are just among the basic general etiquette tips for you. Keep them in your heart and

mind so that you can establish solid relationships.

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First Date Etiquette Tips For The Ladies

August 11th, 2009

Dating is the phase in a woman’s life wherein she goes out with a man to get to know him

more. A more intimate and romantic relationship blooms whenever they both find out their

similarities and compatibilities. A close bondage is also formed during the course of the

dating stage. It is during this time that both of you enjoy each other’s company as well.

The problem is that some women tend to forget the do’s and don’ts in dating. Your actions

are left unchecked so some men get turned off or some resist falling for you. Even the most

minimal flaws can be great factors that may affect the level of the relationship that you

have. Thus, you should know the first date etiquette so you can have your charms working as

you attract your dream guy.

You want to paint a good image when you go out for the first time with a new guy. There are

some guidelines for you to take note of so you can make a pleasant first impression. Be sure

to review the following list so you can be on guard with your manners.

Before meeting each other face-to-face, it is important to settle the payment issues first.

Who will pay for your meal? Are you going to share? Normally, it is the guy who pays for the

date. However, with the time being modern, there can be a special arrangement between the

two of you.

Arrive on time. Start creating the first impression by arriving at the venue on time. Don’t

let your date wait for so long or else he might think that you have the tendency to arrive

late often.

Dress nicely. Put on your best effort to look your best. Dress appropriately and be sure to

inquire whether there is a dress code in the venue of your date. Be sure to wear something

that will make you feel comfortable. Don’t dress provocatively on your first date.

Refrain from using your phone. It is always rude to use your cellular phone when you are

already with your date. Some exceptions are of course when there are emergency calls that

you must take. 

Act like a real lady. It is your first date so you don’t know much about the guy yet. Does

he prefer the liberated lady or the conservative one? Whichever is the case, what matters is

that you act with all the feminine grace. Don’t be too intimate with him or be too touchy.

Arm yourself with confidence. You should mark your first meeting with confidence. Thus,

express your thoughts and body gestures with confidence. Just don’t overdo it.

Use the basic table manners. Order something that is not messy to eat. Never put your elbows

on the table. Chew your food slowly and properly. Don’t talk when your mouth is full. If you

mess up in your table manners, your date is likely to get turned off.

Concentrate on light topics. Avoid talking about sex, religion, politics, and other topics

that may cause heated arguments.

Exude a positive attitude. It is always easier to fall for someone who takes life

positively.
Be a good listener. It is necessary to always show your interest to any conversations that

you are having. Also, remember to make an eye contact.

It is by carefully observing the first date etiquette that the guy may possibly ask you out

again. Thus, you better review these guidelines.

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Etiquette: How Rules Of Etiquette Started

August 8th, 2009

Ever wondered why we have to be polite when we ask something from a stranger? Or why we have

to set our silverware at four o’clock once we’re done with our meal? Or why we have to wait

for others to be served first before we serve ourselves at dinner? Well, it could have been

a lot convenient if these rules do not exist, but as it is, they exist and they need to be

followed. Unless of course if you are willing to be labeled as uncouth, rude and

inconsiderate.

The aforementioned examples are just tiny fractions of indelible etiquette that we were

taught since infancy. And since then, we had to practice etiquette in all forms and on all

occasions where they are prescribed. So how did these hard-and-fast rules of socialization

started?

Well, about a few hundred years ago, some thoughtful people layed the basic rules of living

which made interaction with other people which supposedly made socialization a bit more

peaceful, more amiable and more comfortable. These rules were not so clear-cut back then,

instead they just followed what whims the snobbish aristocrats had. So since all things

these snob cohorts had were fashionable, everyone followed or tried to follow, including

Charles I and Charles II of England who were instrumental in the transmission of French

court behaviors to English lands.

Every aristocrat followed suit and so the prescribed court behaviors were layed down- these

included wearing outrageously tight corsets and skirts for males. And as these people try to

develop higher orders of social behaviors, they tossed in countless rules of etiquette to

suit their need to be different from everyone else and to satisfy their snooty behaviors.

One thing led to another and we now have the slightly modified versions of what the nobles

used to have as etiquette. We don’t have to wear fancy wigs or make-ups that ruin the face

anymore but we still have to observe some of the basic etiquette followed a few hundred

years ago.

Nowadays, basic etiquette are no longer very elaborate and some have already lost their

stiff appeal. In fact, it may even be said that some rules of etiquette have become quite

loose that they no longer need to be observed on a number of occasions. Nonetheless, there

are still a lot of them that one should know and practice as they pop up every now and then

in our daily lives.

The rules of etiquette are definitely embedded into our culture, regardless of what nook of

the globe we came from. These are not strict rules, but they are permanent and firmly

established codes and guidelines that were passed down for countless years to serve

beneficial purposes for us. They help greatly in establishing basic rules of good manners

and conduct which give mostly everyone equal opportunities to be respected even by those

people who live in higher strata of the society.

Through the rules of etiquette, we can easily polish ourselves to become polite to

everyone’s eyes without fear of prejudice because of our station. And through these, we can

also identify those people who are supposedly more learned and cultured than we are yet they

fail to observe simple good manners.

Etiquette is closely intertwined with our culture, our daily activities and our personal

lives. And they will always be.

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